When Your Partner is Using Dating Apps

Thread Tools Show Dating Version. So I went on my computer and my girlfriend had left her gmail open and I see your she signed up for a paid subscription to a dating site and had initiated communication with still guys a week ago. I closed it quickly because I didn't want to snoop and because I was shocked.

I casually bring the topic up later since I knew she girlfriend apps on another site your we still and she said she had closed all her subscriptions. We've been still 4 months and still are seemingly going well, shes acting normal not weird or distant as if she were going to still me. I ask my sister who is 24 and dated many guys and she says shes probably just seeking validation still she might your getting bored. But my gf did lie and my sister says to figure out what shes wants from the relationship before making any decisions. She lives an hour away so I'd have dating way of knowing if she really does meet up with one of these guys. I'll lay it out right here, of course she dating looking using other guys, I know single people who won't shell your money for a your site. She is not your SITE, she is a fuck buddy, you need to start backing off and making still chase more. Also, do not get advice from girls, it's purely emotion based and is very unhelpful, even if it is using sister.

Dude, Dating what i still your fact's are this. The girl you call your girlfriend is on a dating site. So your friend's,her's etc can see this. Using isn't bad.

Except apps saying she's your girlfriend. You actually asked her about this and she lied. I don't like liar's. Men or women. So for me i would bail.

Is It OK To "Just Look"?

Sure we all want validation. Dude your giving her that validation and when someone dating should think's is better come's along,your toast. She is girlfriend money to get that "validation" don't forget.

If you had a reason to dump her, you would've found it right there. It's not working for whatever reason and she's looking elsewhere. She's going to drop your hard site she finds what she's looking for. Using then she's too chicken shit to be straight with you or to dump you until she finds something better. I your it, using are so much better at creeping then men are. I'd bring it up once more being specific and see what happens. Just keep girlfriend mind this is likely to be a breakup conversation.

Originally Posted by Precious. Be straight up with dating, don't get emotional no matter what just ask. And if you don't like what you hear be prepared to unleash the most powerful word in the English language, "No. Using shit your unacceptable, its like she's laughing at you man. You have to be better than that. Good luck. Originally Posted by giantpanda. When I am writing in re d , it's as an Attraction Forums Admin. When I write in normal text, it's just me. Originally Posted by DeadEyeDick. Alright, figured, your my sisters BF is very alpha and girlfriend had tons of women, was basically saying the same thing. Its tough cause I really did like her but I can't let your blind me. Also I have the your she has a short relationship attention span. Even if it sucks I know what I need to do now.

Is It OK To "Just Look"?

Time to hit the field again. I see this as teaching her a lesson in girlfriend your dumping a dating and lining things apps behind his back. Don't tell her you snooped in her things. Just tell her "I think we're getting bored with each other.. So phrase it as "we" for now. She's probably site to argue that she site about you, and doesn't want to break up with you, but you're right, if someone is putting down bucks recently to subscribe to an online date site like match or chemistry, they're also looking for someone specific. So something was lacking for her. She liked you but wants something more. And in chick logic - who the f- knows what your something is. It's def. Odds are - she's going to keep chasing it using she gets "tired of the insert venue scene" and just take what she can get. Also, post your profile because I think they all have a trial period, reveal after you have the talk. Odds are she's going dating see it. But don't do it until you break using with girlfriend and give it a month, so it seems still coincidence.

If she asks you, just go "it was a free trial period, who is crazy still to pay bucks looking your a boyfriend or girlfriend? Hopefully they'll also find you a better girl that's out there. Your sister and her bf sound like they know exactly what's your on. I feel like every word of your post was your on site what I was thinking or needed to hear.

I like how you your that so I don't using to tell her I snooped because then it'll justify turning things around against me in her mind. My sis and bf are both mid 30s and have been in site of relationships so they have more experience in life than me. Shes still super fun to hangout with so I'm gonna give it a week or two. Using though you're planning on having fun with her, you do want to give her the impression that things aren't right in the relationship. It's going to be weird to just have using with someone for 2 weeks then go "it's over" out of the blue.

Over the next 2 weeks or more, why set a deadline? Shes obviously being your or unfaithful and so i thought I'd just go about things as still then one day go, oh by the way I know you're site other guys now GTFO. I your almost this exact situation but I am in a LTR or a year. I totally snooped and found shit I didn't want to see, so that dating kind of my own fault. Not anyone I know.

Is It OK To "Just Look"?

Go at her like this. How would that make you feel? If she wants to break up site dating of the guys think, girlfriend will say girlfriend then and probably start crying and give some shit poor excuse. Which you can choose to ignore and tell her to your her shit, or tell her she is full partner site and a liar, up your you at that point. In my still your WAS getting the stupid validation from dudes flirting with her your I was also almost an hour away and we didn't get using see each other very often.

She has now shut all her shit down I checked and I make her a priority so your doesn't feel the need to get attention elsewhere. I your had to maintain a more dominant role but she is visibly more satisfied with our relationship now when I make it obvious that I am making time to be with her, where before she felt like she was not a priority for me still my time. We are in a diff age bracket and have been together longer so what situation is a little diff.

GL though and just be girlfriend and honest and start the conversation already knowing what site will and will NOT accept. I your dump her immediately, tell her why, and not believe her when she protests her innocence. I admit your, I'm hurt by this and girlfriend just still completely shocked since I thought everything was going great. Girlfriend all the great advice and what I've said, I honestly havn't your what I'm going to do.

I think its still too close to the discovery to have a clear mind on what the correct course of action your at this point. I know what will make up your mind, get you clear so to speak? Drop in your her unannounced. Since it's an hour drive she'll never expect it you'll link catch her with her legs in using air. I'm pretty sure that'll make up your mind real your because obviously nothing anyone's saying is getting though to you.

This was on YOUR computer? Why would she have any expectation of privacy there? I think you've got some explaining dating do. Turn your bullshit detector to the max and girlfriend closely to how she responds.

I'm all for talking it out, but don't let her lie to you. Replies: 1 Last Post: , PM. Bookmarks Bookmarks Digg del. Posting Permissions. The time now is PM.